So, life, right? It’s like… a Roomba that’s been given a map of the entire universe and told to clean it all by Tuesday. Utter chaos. For me, that chaos was reaching critical mass. I was basically a human tumbleweed of anxiety and misplaced keys. Something had to change. ChatGPT suggested “organization.” It used a…

My website has always been a reflection of the many phases of my life. It started as “Bill’s Web Lodge,” a space meant to bring people together, but like me, it has evolved. Over the years, it has changed names, focuses, and purposes, following the twists and turns of my journey. When I came out…

Once upon a time, there was a well-meaning, slightly scatterbrained donkey named Willy. Willy had one important mission on his mind: delivering a special birthday gift to his daughter. After days of wandering around the bustling marketplace, he finally found a perfect gift, one that he knew would make her smile. Confident he had it…

Imagine this: you’re at a meeting, cradling your coffee, barely awake, trying to focus on the discussion. Then, out of nowhere, your boss says, “Hey, I need you to take on another project. Jamie’s swamped, so it’ll be a huge help if you can just add it to your list.” You blink, trying to process.…

The term “Asperger’s syndrome” is no longer used in formal diagnoses. The DSM-5, the standard manual for mental health diagnoses, now categorizes Asperger’s under the broader umbrella of Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). Autism presents a wide range of characteristics and histories. Traditional Differences Between Asperger’s and Autism Historically, Asperger’s syndrome was differentiated from other forms…

Maggie & Marvin’s Tale Maggie, a sharp-tongued Black-billed Magpie, and Marvin, a laid-back Yellow-bellied Marmot, made for an unexpected duo. You know how they say opposites attract? Well, this pair was living proof. Maggie, diagnosed with autism later in life, had a knack for turning nests into works of art—think Frank Lloyd Wright but with…

My #Neurodiversity I wanted to take a minute to share some of the YouTube channels I’ve found especially helpful. Why YouTube? Well, because I relate best through stories and experiences. These channels, all hosted by autistic creators, each offer something unique and bring different perspectives on what it’s like to be autistic. My favorites are…

Time Travel Through October 18ths Reflecting on October 18th across various years, it’s wild to see both the changes and constants in my life. These snapshots help piece together my evolution, showing what has shaped who I am today. Early Career Focus and Social Life: Passion for Mountain Biking and the Outdoors: Health-Conscious Lifestyle: Content…

I recently listened to a podcast featuring Paul and Claire, two autistic individuals, and honestly, it was like finding my people. You can check it out here: https://youtu.be/N3vM_tidi2g?si=DAhtqBB_KF6j_rdJ—but only if you promise to come back! Embracing Individuality Paul and Claire talked about embracing autism as a positive part of themselves. Now, I’m trying to do…

A Neurodivergent Perspective The transition involving the remote work agreement quickly became overwhelming. They framed it as “standard procedure,” but with the questionable connections among senior management, I could sense something was off. I didn’t fully understand all the implications, but the lack of clarity, mixed messages, and the pressure to comply made the entire…