Yesterdays Cyclocross race did not go well and I feel like I want to hide under a bush today. I don't want to face others until I have had time to get to the truth of what happened last night. What exactly caused me to get lapped? Well, I don't know; and until then leave me alone. Let me guide myself into truth.
I will know what I need to know, when I need to know it. i do not have to feel badly about taking my own time to reach my insights. I don't have to force insight or awareness before it is time. This line of thinking can be applied to everyday life as well. So when people are on you to make a decision you have every right to make them wait.
Yes! Maybe the whole world saw a particular truth in my life, and I denied it … until I am ready to deal with it. That is my business, and my right! My process is my own, and I will discover my truth at the right time, when I am ready, when the experience is complete.
The most growth producing concept I can develop for myself and others is to allow myself to have my own process. I can give and receive support and encouragement (another hang up) while I go through this process. I can listen to others and say what I think. I can set boundaries and take care of myself, when needed. but I still give myself and others the right to grow at our own pace, without judgement, and with much trust that all is well and is on schedule.
When i am ready, when the time is right, and when mother earth is ready … I will know what I need to know. Then you can ask me how the race went.
Boneshakerbike 
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